Ask. Then recommend.
When we merely seek to see the "other side" of complex issues, it oversimplifies and categorizes us into warring factions, and it prevents us from seeing the vast, gray middle where most of us actually reside.
Have you considering just...asking?
I share these thoughts with you this week not to beat you up, but to help you get past any fear you might have of asking questions that have answers that might be uncomfortable for you.